I am renaming the “Craft” column
in my blog to “Party inspiration”
Because I’ve been most un-crafty
Because the craftiest I’ve done
recently is.. hmm.. is.. (give me some time, will you)
So that I can pass off my
picture-perfect (not) whacky creations as inspiration as opposed to craft and
not offend genuine crafters
So that I have a place to
show-off my cakes and
So I can inspire you guys to try
Here is a list of tips that will
be useful when you’re planning a DIY (with help) party.
First things first, THE CAKE
1. Cake
decorating is best done between 11 pm and 3 am, in the wee hours of the night
when everyone is asleep, when you won’t be interrupted for someone’s potty,
when the courier guy, gas guy and cable guy won’t come calling, when there are
no more filter coffees to make, when the kitchen is finally cool and quiet, when
Mysskin is probably filming somewhere.
2. “Always
sketch your cake” as Subashini Ramsingh wisely says and borrow your kid’s
crayons to colour-test them.
3. For
the sake of your own sanity, do make more frosting than you think you need.
Always! If you are planning to try a new cake recipe or frosting recipe, don’t.
4. Split
up the work. I am no cake decorating professional. I am easily psyched out by a
simple ruffle skirted Barbie cake. I like to split up my work. Bake the cake
ahead. Make the fillings and toppers even ahead of that. Of course make a whole
lot of frosting, also ahead of time. Then the night before your event, sit down
and put it all together. And before all that, clear the largest dumpyard a.k.a
your fridge and make space.
Here is the barbie cake I made
for Hasini’s 5th birthday, not all that justifiable given my nightly
research for more than a month, but it’s a barbie cake.
Here is a butterscotch cake I
made for my best friend Menaka’s birthday.
Party Planning
Did you know that the first thing
to do when you decide to have a party is to plan the party décor and clear out your
fridge? And also remember to make an appointment for a foot massage the day
after the party. You'll know why at the end of the party.
1. Well,
I always feel that I should start with the decorations but I always start with
the menu and I don’t ever think about what I am going to wear. Unlike me,
please do think about what you’ll wear. And do make lists. These are absolutely
essential.
2. You’ll
need to make 5 lists. You may make more if you wish to but you need to make
these 5 - the guest list, the party menu (don’t forget to clear out your fridge
first even if you’re getting food from outside. Leftovers?!!), the decorations
list, the entertainment and party favors list and the delegation list. The
delegation list is the most important list. You’ll need to clearly have it down
on your list as to who’ll capture your precious pinterest-y moments on camera,
who’ll refill the chutnies and dips and who’ll run for the match box at
candle-lighting time (else everybody just conveys to everybody else that
somebody needs a match-box). Maybe not to the match-box fetching detail
(although it wouldn’t really hurt to) but you get the point. Have help ready.
You can’t do it all.
3. For
Hasini’s 5th birthday last month, my sister and I were
accordion-folding crepe paper to make crepe paper fans/medallions and snipping
away tissue papers to make tissue paper garlands even a few hours before the
party. Not right! An organized party-planner would have made all the
decorations over the previous weeks and would have just had to put them up the
morning of the party, which obviously I am not. Store delicate paper
decorations in cardboard boxes to save them from dust and to not crumple them.
4. Music
really sets the mood for the party. So make sure to create a playlist for the
party. Delegating the DJ’ing to friends is not a bad idea either along with some activities for kids.
5. When
planning party favors, always have a few options because from my experience the
one thing that I am looking for is suddenly obsolete – the little silk coin
purses that were once piled high on Pondy Bazaar platforms are nowhere to be
found now, same with wooden framed slate boards. Start with a budget as it is
easy to get carried away. Homemade cookies, bars, vathals are all nice ideas
but make sure to package them attractively.
6. To
me the food IS the party. It all starts here. I always choose crowd favourite recipes – corn cheese balls or fish fingers but I also slip in a not-so-popular
(as party food) kamarkat or cabbage pakoda along with the biryani or fried rice
(around here, it is illegal to not have rice on a menu). And then there is
dessert (again not an option). It is important to have a mix of make-ahead
items and make-just-before items and the more of the former, the better off you
are, greater chance that you can take a bath and not smell like the
neighbourhood Hot chips stall. More on party food in a separate post dedicated to
just that.
Cleaning up after the party is the one thing I don’t want to
think about, lest I cancel the party. But it’s the ugly truth. Take it easy but
don’t push everything to the next day.
I am no expert party planner, far
from it. If you have tips for DIY party planners, please leave them in the
comments box below.
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